Living in the void after a break up a long term relationship is a critical time to really dance, reflect and flow with our feelings, both good and bad. My own loss of relationship reminds me how powerful our emotions are and how sometimes we regret not sharing them. I feel the grief, sadness and loss not only of the person, but the dreams I had virtualized and the opportunities that were not yet realized. Even those who initiate the break-up are not immune from this, although the degree of their emotional suffering is different than those who were left behind and the scars that were developed.
